Sunday, June 03, 2007
When was the first time you spoke really nicely to your parents about something you felt but he or she was actually angry at a first comment.
Today's my first, and PRAISE GOD!
Because on usual days I DO NOT even speak nicely to them! Imagine that my parent was actually really really angry and a comment my other parents made and I just said, "Can I say something?" and pointed out whatever was said by that parent, I also agreed to it and that he or she need not take it so offensively. Isn't that just like amazing? I never felt better after making my point, because before that I was gettting offended by the tone of my parent. And I was thinking to myself about this parent not being a good example and carrying out what he or she said, instead he or she just gets mad.
By the way, if you are wondering why I am not saying who is because I don't want to let people think that I am making them think that my parent is bad.
Now I understand why talking nicely stops someone from being able to get too mad. After what I said, my parent stopped sating things in an angry tone and could not say anything further.
What can I do but thank You,
What can I do but give my life to You.
These words come from my heart to God even though it comes from a song.
There's not need for you to get all angry and over yourself when someone passes a comment about you, because all that they are trying to do is to help you improve!
They're your human mirror and when you rebuke them or refuse to listen to them, you would no longer have a good friend or companion that would ever want to be truthful to you. So don't regret when you lose them 'cause you are the one who gave up having such a good friend.
As people always type in their meaningful messages to friends that GOOD FRIENDS ARE HARD TO FIND!
I need to learn how to accept my bad points too. Everyone does, some do it better than the others but why don't you think that this way you not only improve in your character, you also help your friend in encouraging them that their words are taken seriously. =D
IN THE FAMILY OF GOD, WE ARE ONE BIG FAMILY AND WE NEED TO HELP SPUR EACH OTHER ON! BE IT GOOD OR BAD COMMENTS SAID IN A NICE WAY OR NOT. IT'S ALL FOR YOUR OWN GOOD!=)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO SIHUI!!! MY DEAREST 'OL FRIEND!!!=D Love you loads! This year is our last year, so fast ya? TAKE CARE!!!!!